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Gay Tantric Massage

About Tantric massage

Tantric Massage is merely an application of Tantra.

Tantra in and of itself is a form of meditation and can also be classified as a religious practice.

Tantra is merely enjoying life to the fullest without boundaries. It is living in the here and now so as to experience the full spectrum of energy that arises when things happen.

It is keeping the mind empty of past and future occurrences and the flood of alternate resolutions and realities that accompany them so that we may load our psyche with the full spectrum of the present and in there so doing fully experience the beauty that is here and now.

The philosophy of Tantra lies in direct contradiction to today's western society especially that of the United States of America. In the US we are always trying to lose weight, gain weight, grow hair, remove hair, lighten the color of our skin, darken the color of our skin, make more money, etc. etc. etc.

The forces that be in US society are always trying to promote a conflict within us or one that is looming overhead which if not dealt with in a prescribed fashion may destroy our jubilant way of life. This is done for the most part by the media. It is by doing this that they exert a certain control over our level of autonomy and self worth. By maintaining this conflict we seek salvation through the accumulation of various goods and services which according to the placement of well engineered media campaigns would help us resolve the conflict which ironically created it to begin with.

It is like someone telling you continually, "You are not happy because you do not drive a Lexus. You will be happy when you drive a Lexus. Don't have enough money to buy a Lexus? Then merely lease a Lexus. It is not expensive when taken in proportion to how happy it will make you..." So what do you do, you buy a Lexus.

What all of this has done is weighted the accumulation of material possession as better than love and companionship.

The one cure to resolve these supposed conflicts and also prevent them from ever appearing (no matter what the wishes of the powers that be are) is a full experience of unhindered unsheathed sexual energy.

OK so, what's the difference between Gay Tantra AND...
an Orgy?

The goal of what can be labeled an Orgy is usually one of an altruistically physical nature where one just wants to "get their rocks off".

The goal of Gay Tantra however is "getting your rocks off" on a mental, spiritual and oftimes physical level AT THE SAME TIME!

To truly become proficient at this, one must practice, practice, and practice!!!

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Stone Massage

Try something different with a stone massage.

The stones are used in two ways during the massage. One is to impart heat onto the body by laying stones under the client with a layer of fabric between the client and stone (a sheet or towel) and/or on top of the client, again upon a towel. Stone layout typically will be along both sides of the spine, or along the chakra centers on top and baseball sized stones would be placed in the hands. While these layout stones are delivering concentrated centers of heat, the therapist is simultaneously massaging the client with oiled, heated stones held in the palm of the hand with firm strokes along the muscles of the legs, arms, and torso areas.

An authentic hot stone massage is not simply the "gliding" of heated stones lightly upon the surface of the skin, but rather the stones are used as tools to deliver effective tissue and muscle massage at a pressure level comfortable to the client. The client can request light, medium or deep pressure, which is the beauty of the hot stone massage technique. It can be customized in an instant to the request of the client. The hardness of the stones makes for a deep tissue massage and is easy on the joints of the therapists hands.

The heat from the stones relaxes muscles, increase the blood flow to the area being worked on which further accelerates the healing process. This increase in circulation and the relaxation of the muscles also aids in mental relaxation. Mental relaxation is key when a Therapist is attempting to work into deeper muscles of the body.

Stones need to be kept heated in clean, sanitized water between 120 to 130 degrees Fahrenheit (about 50°C). Typically, gloves, tools, or mesh bags are used in removing stones from the hot water for sanitary reasons since hot water promotes the growth of bacteria. Alternatively, water temperatures kept too low may allow the proliferation of bacteria, algae, and mold, especially if the water has not been changed. Ideally the water should be changed for every round of sessions the therapist performs, the stone should be thoroughly cleaned and dried between patients. Your therapist or practitioner should have attended an intensive course over a period of a few days, with a resultant qualification. While the length of time the practitioner has spent being trained can be important, in general a recognised qualification from a reputable practical training source is preferred.

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