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Tuesday, July 21, 2009

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Monday, July 20, 2009

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Friday, July 17, 2009

Ancient Thai Massage

Ancient Thai Massage

Also known as passive/assisted yoga or Thai bodywork, it is usually soothing because of its emphasis on stretching and loosening the body. It is also known as Ancient massage because its roots go back far into history, originating in India and then becoming popular in Thailand.

The patient changes into pajamas and lays on a firm mattress on the floor. (It can be done solo or in a group of a dozen or so patients in the same large room.) The practitioner leans on the patient's body using the forearm to apply firm rhythmic pressure to almost every part of the patient body. No oil is applied except sometimes to the patient's palms and soles. A full course of Thai massage lasts anywhere from one to two hours including pulling fingers, toes, ears etc., cracking the knuckles, walking on the patient's back, arching the patient's back in a rolling action etc. There is a standard procedure and rhythm to the massage. Sometimes in a large group massage, the practitioners do the procedures in unison.

Thai massage is a tourist attraction in Thailand and the practitioners are usually women. In some establishments, they sit inside a room with a large display window, so clients can pick the girl they like by the number tag on them. Some say the young and pretty women usually give a poor massage because of lack of experience. A full massage in Thailand costs around US$8 (in 2001) depending on exchange rate and location (it may cost ten times more inside a five star hotel).

Thursday, July 16, 2009

How to Touch

Sex, whether Tantric or not, involves touch. Lots of touch. Traditional sex guides usually discuss which body parts to touch, when to touch it, and how fast to touch it. This is great, as far as it goes. But in Tantra, we want to go a step further. We want to become the touch. In order to do that, we need to find the narrow realm of touch that lies between too much pressure and too little. When you touch a body, you want to touch deeply enough that the body pushes back just a little. If a muscle becomes rigid under your touch, you've gone too far. If the muscle feels flaccid, you haven't gone far enough.

The Resilient Edge of Resistance

This is the essence of conscious touch. It was named the Resilient Edge of Resistance by my endlessly inventive teaching partner, Chester Mainard. If the concept of the Resilient Edge of Resistance sounds complicated of vague, think about the times you've been touched. What does it feel like when someone's touch is too tentative? It may feel like an annoying tickle, or - if they are using the tips of their fingers - it may feel like poking. Either way, it feels just plain icky. On the other end of the spectrum, some people's touch is way too intense. Have you ever received a massage by someone with a really heavy touch? Your muscles tense and contract as if trying to push their hands away. You get more and more tense as they try and force your muscles to relax. It is painful and not at all relaxing. Then there is the touch that is just right. It feels safe and supportive and present. It's neither too hard nor too soft. It lulls you into a place of deep comfort and surrender. You're awake and aware, but completely peaceful and relaxed at the same time. You want it to go on forever. The person touching you has found your Resilient Edge of Resistance.

Place you hand on your lower arm very lightly. Don't apply any pressure. Notice what this feels like. Now massage your arm, applying increasingly more pressure. Stop at the point where the massage becomes painful. Notice what this feels like. Now lighten your touch until you find the point at which your arm yields to your touch but does not shrink away from it. You might find it with a massage stroke using your fingers, or just by holding your arm.

I've always thought a good illustration of the edge of resistance is the tummy touch on the Pillsbury doughboy in those television commercials. When the doughboy is touched on his tummy, he absorbs the touch (the finger makes a little dimple on his tummy); then his doughy tummy springs right back, and the doughboy giggles. That's the Resilient Edge of Resistance.

The Resilient Edge of Resistance applies to all parts of our being: physical, emotional, and psychic. When we have too much mental stress in or lives, we shut down, overwhelmed; yet when there is too little stress, we have no energy, no motivation. On the psychic level, the Resilient Edge of Resistance translates into "sufficiently supported to take a risk." Without risk, there is no growth or energy; however, without support, risk becomes recklessness. In the territory between, we can grow, thrive, and find pleasure. We function optimally at the Resilient Edge of Resistance.

The Resilient Edge of Resistance shifts constantly. When pressure is applied the edge of resistance - whether that pressure is breath, touch, or tension - you expand a bit. This creates a new edge of resistance. Yoga postures are a god example of this. If you are seated on the floor and bend over to try and tough your forehead to your legs, it may at first seem impossible. Then, with each breath, you relax into the stretch a little bit more. You don't force it, you just open your legs a bit more with each breath. Before you know it, your nose is a lot closer to your legs than you ever thought possible. By staying at the Resilient Edge of Resistance, you are able to go much deeper into the pose than if you had not gone to the edge, or if you pushed past the edge in to pain. The Resilient Edge of Resistance is the place where you feel safe enough to surrender and go deeper.

Sex that is too soft is vapid; sex that is too had is assaulting. We want to learn to dance on the Resilient Edge of Resistance because that's where the real pleasure is. When we reach that level of pleasure, gateways open to even more profound discoveries and connections.

Most people touch the way they like to be touched, which may not be how someone else likes to be touched at all. For example, you may go all melty and shivery when someone runs their fingernails along the inside of your thighs. Quite naturally, you'll want your partner to feel as yummy as you do, so you'll touch him the same way. However, he may find that light, feathery touch ticklish and annoying. So how do you learn to recognize Resilient Edge of Resistance? Your hands and your intuition will guide you, but your best guide is the person you are touching. Ask your partner to tell you when a touch is too hard or too light. When you get feedback, you can easily make an adjustment, and your hands will memorize it. With practice, your hands will know what the Resilient Edge of Resistance feels like on more and more places on the body, and your touch will become as perfect as that of the lady whose fingertip poked the tummy of the Pillsbury doughboy.

Here are a few exercises to help you write the Resilient Edge of Resistance into your muscle memory:
  • Hug someone. Find a connection that is neither too smothering nor too wimpy.
  • Set the temperature of your bath or shower water to the point where any hotter would be too hot, and any colder would be too cold.
  • Give yourself a massage with body cream. Go slowly and find the Resilient Edge of Resistance on your legs, your arms, your belly, and your breasts.
  • Give and receive a hand massage.
  • Get a massage. Explain the concept of Resilient Edge of Resistance to your masseuse. With her agreement, give feedback to keep the masseuse's touch at your edge.
  • Give a massage. Ask the receiver to give you feedback to keep your touch at their Resilient Edge of Resistance.
  • Practice by petting a dog or a cat. Pets give great feedback. If they stick around and beg for more, you've found their Resilient Edge of Resistance.
  • Find the Resilient Edge of Resistance in stillness. Stillness is extremely powerful. Put your hands on someone so that you can feel both resilience and resistance. Embrace them both with your hands.


The Resilient Edge of Resistance Applies to More Than Touch

Although the Resilient Edge of Resistance is a concept most easily applied to touch, all of your relating with and lover (including yourself) can take place in the lovely realm between too much pressure and too little. Let me give you an example. Several years ago, I met my adorable and adoring partner, Kate, at a most intense time in my life. I was breaking up with one lover, involved with two others in a three-way, long-distance relationship, and packing up my New York City home to move to Australia. Not a day went by that I wasn't saying goodbye to someone or something that had been a hugely important part of my life. The stress was high as an elephant's eye, and I was starting to crack under the pressure and grief and drama of it all.

On afternoon, Kate and I started o make love. She was touching me lightly and lovingly, and it should have been wonderful, but it wasn't. I couldn't stand it - I wanted to punch her. Of course, it wasn't her fault. I usually loved a light, elegant touch. After all, I was the queen of ostrich feather caresses and silky, sensuous massages. But today it just wasn't working for me at all. Kate. both a very experienced S/M player and a very intuitive lover, said, "Do you think you might like something a little harder?"

"Definitely."

She began by thudding my back with a padded nightstick. It felt so good. I breathed and groaned and yelled out weeks of built-up pain and frustration. When I turned over, I felt a tight pain in my solar plexus as though some malevolent force had grabbed hold of all my power and was holding it hostage. Kate took a sharp pointed talon (a long steel claw that extends from a ring worn on the finger to an inch beyond the fingertip) and started running it down my stomach. She started relatively lightly, as the talon was quite sharp. I kept asking her to press harder and harder. With each stroke I was opening up a bit more. Kate stayed right with me. She listened to me, gave me what I asked for, and most importantly, made me feel safe. I knew she was focused only on me and that she had the technique to use the talon safely. I knew she would not do anything that would actually injure me, no matter how much I asked. I breathed and yelled and cried, and finally, as the talon nearly sliced me open, I felt my solar plexus burst open, releasing all the evil, black, psychic gunk I had been holding there. I cried and cried and then I laughed and laughed. I felt so high, so light, and so me again.

That was meeting Resilient Edge of Resistance - psychically, emotionally, and physically. So, think about your own life: where you live, what you do for work, what your home life is like, and so forth. If you live in a sweet little cottage beside a lake in the woods, work at a fulfilling but low-pressure job, and have lots of time for family and friends and nature, your Resilient Edge of Resistance will be at a very different place at the end of the day than that of a person who works in a cubicle in a corporate office tower in midtown New York at a high-pressure job that frequently keeps them at their desk till 9 p.m. the person in New York is more likely to ant and need a harder touch in order to crack through the armor they have built up to protect their hearts and other soft tender parts. Whether you generally like a hard touch or a soft touch, whether you like black leather or floaty sarongs, even if you change your sexual style on a daily basis, you can't go wrong if you simply find your Resilient Edge of Resistance.

Wednesday, July 15, 2009

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Have you seen the new ads for Progressive Insurance featuring vintage pictures of Gay couples? It's wonderful to see men and women had this done years before they would ever be accepted.

Good Health At Every Age

Check out the advocate this month for a great article about good health at every age. Lots of wonderful information to keep up healthy and fit.

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From The Advocate August 2009

Tuesday, July 14, 2009

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Myofascial Release

Myofascial Release Massage

Myofascial release is a technique designed to release tension in the fascia - the tough connective tissue that connects and surrounds muscles, bones, ligaments, tendons, arteries, veins and organs. The fascia can become tight or distorted as a result of injury, illness, poor posture or inflammation. This can cause abnormal pressure on structures covered by the fascia, which and lead to pain or lack of mobility. Many individuals suffer because of untreated fascia problems.

Monday, July 13, 2009

School of Erotic touch

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Crystal Massage


Crystal massage can be a really beautiful and uplifting experience. It works on a deep esoteric level and not only does the physical body enjoy total relaxation but all the inner emotional stresses are brought skillfully to the surface of the mind - and dissipated.

For many years now I have been practising as a qualified massage therapist and also as a qualified tutor of massage. All my massage treatments have involved several different kinds of massage ranging from Swedish massage to intuitive massage and crystal massage.

And when I began using crystals in my healing work it seemed perfectly natural to me that I should also use crystals as an extension to my massage treatments.

There are many - and varied - ways of using crystals to enrich and enhance the massage experience.

Besides massage I also practice aromatherapy (the ancient art of using and blending essential oils in massage treatments). I often use quartz crystals to increase the 'potency' of the essential oil.

Having once chosen and blended the most suitable combination of oils for my client, I take my personal control quartz crystal and move the crystal around the perimeter of the bottle containing the oil in a clock-wise direction. This, strengthens the bio-magnetic field around the bottle. I then take the lid off the bottle and direct the crystalline energies directly on to the oil. The oil is then ready for use.......

In my own personal experience, and having monitored the results very carefully, I have found that I am able to give a much better therapeutic treatment - and the client responds a great deal more readily - as a result of using crystals in my aromatherapy sessions.


However, the pure idyllic delight in using a single-terminated quartz crystal, with unchipped or polished facets, directly upon the client's body, should never, at any time, be underestimated!

Using a single-terminated quartz crystal, crystal massage may be divided up into two main categories:

1) Where a basic knowledge of the techniques of massage are essential.

2) Where it is not necessary to have any knowledge of massage.

In the first category I prepare a client in exactly the same fashion as if he or she were going to have an ordinary massage. I use my massage couch and the client begins the session by lying on their stomach so that I may start working on their back area.

I always use massage oils on the client first and their massage session follows my normal procedures using my own special intuitive massage techniques.

When I have completed their normal massage treatment I then pick up my personal quartz crystal and, very gently, massage their entire body by stroking the single-terminated end of the quartz crystal across their skin. I start with the feet, moving upwards very slowly, firmly and deliberately to the head and then back down the entire body again.

The secret of giving a very successful Crystal Massage lies in being able to control the quartz crystal so that it almost glides over the surface of the client's skin.

Before, however, you begin to use your quartz crystal on your client. it is very important that you first 'program' it with the thought that the crystal vibrations and energies are going to merge with that of your client.

I always mentally attune myself into the crystal by asking that the crystal energies are absorbed into the skin of the client and that their body be totally re-energized, re-harmonized and re-balanced wherever any 'imbalances' are to be found.

In the second category of crystal massage it is not, of course, necessary for you to have any basic knowledge at all. Instead of using oils and hand massage techniques you move straight on to using the quartz crystal. The effects can often be absolutely delightful for your client and will make them feel 'out of this world'.

As you progress and become more experienced in crystal massage you will become able to massage the client's body, mind and spirit at the same time.

Once you have learnt and mastered ordinary crystal massage techniques you can then move on to practicing more advanced crystal massage techniques.

For the more advanced crystal massage techniques I dispense with my massage couch altogether and use the floor. By working with the client on the floor you have a great deal more room in which to work and the floor affords you greater opportunities for using new forms of crystal configurations.

The client lies on his or her back in the middle of the floor. I then place between 12 - 30 large quartz crystals surrounding their body with all the single-terminated points facing inwards.

I try to place all the crystals at equidistant points around the client's body in a circular fashion and allowing me enough room in which I can massage the client whilst I am also inside the circle.

The energy field thus created is exceptionally strong and the energies from all the crystals surrounding the body combine to provide a unified magnetic energy field which is absorbed into every fibre of the client's being.

Working on a client who is lying within this energy field is a sheer joy as both the client and the the therapist are able to share in the wonderful relaxing vibrations that continue to emanate from the crystals whilst the treatment is progressing.

A deep therapeutic crystal massage will often lead to the inner release of emotional traumas and tensions; most of which the client was completely unaware were present!

Many massage therapists have never used quartz crystals in their massage treatments. In the future, however, we should experience a gradual awakening of interest and a thirst for knowledge that will see more and more people being introduced into the exciting and beautiful world of Crystal Massage.

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Sunday, July 12, 2009

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Gay Tantric Massage

About Tantric massage


Tantric Massage is merely an application of Tantra.

Tantra in and of itself is a form of meditation and can also be classified as a religious practice.

Tantra is merely enjoying life to the fullest without boundaries. It is living in the here and now so as to experience the full spectrum of energy that arises when things happen.

It is keeping the mind empty of past and future occurrences and the flood of alternate resolutions and realities that accompany them so that we may load our psyche with the full spectrum of the present and in there so doing fully experience the beauty that is here and now.

The philosophy of Tantra lies in direct contradiction to today's western society especially that of the United States of America. In the US we are always trying to lose weight, gain weight, grow hair, remove hair, lighten the color of our skin, darken the color of our skin, make more money, etc. etc. etc.

The forces that be in US society are always trying to promote a conflict within us or one that is looming overhead which if not dealt with in a prescribed fashion may destroy our jubilant way of life. This is done for the most part by the media. It is by doing this that they exert a certain control over our level of autonomy and self worth. By maintaining this conflict we seek salvation through the accumulation of various goods and services which according to the placement of well engineered media campaigns would help us resolve the conflict which ironically created it to begin with.

It is like someone telling you continually, "You are not happy because you do not drive a Lexus. You will be happy when you drive a Lexus. Don't have enough money to buy a Lexus? Then merely lease a Lexus. It is not expensive when taken in proportion to how happy it will make you..." So what do you do, you buy a Lexus.

What all of this has done is weighted the accumulation of material possession as better than love and companionship.

The one cure to resolve these supposed conflicts and also prevent them from ever appearing (no matter what the wishes of the powers that be are) is a full experience of unhindered unsheathed sexual energy.

OK so, what's the difference between Gay Tantra AND...
an Orgy?

The goal of what can be labeled an Orgy is usually one of an altruistically physical nature where one just wants to "get their rocks off".

The goal of Gay Tantra however is "getting your rocks off" on a mental, spiritual and oftimes physical level AT THE SAME TIME!

To truly become proficient at this, one must practice, practice, and practice!!!

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Stone Massage

Try something different with a stone massage.


The stones are used in two ways during the massage. One is to impart heat onto the body by laying stones under the client with a layer of fabric between the client and stone (a sheet or towel) and/or on top of the client, again upon a towel. Stone layout typically will be along both sides of the spine, or along the chakra centers on top and baseball sized stones would be placed in the hands. While these layout stones are delivering concentrated centers of heat, the therapist is simultaneously massaging the client with oiled, heated stones held in the palm of the hand with firm strokes along the muscles of the legs, arms, and torso areas.

An authentic hot stone massage is not simply the "gliding" of heated stones lightly upon the surface of the skin, but rather the stones are used as tools to deliver effective tissue and muscle massage at a pressure level comfortable to the client. The client can request light, medium or deep pressure, which is the beauty of the hot stone massage technique. It can be customized in an instant to the request of the client. The hardness of the stones makes for a deep tissue massage and is easy on the joints of the therapists hands.

The heat from the stones relaxes muscles, increase the blood flow to the area being worked on which further accelerates the healing process. This increase in circulation and the relaxation of the muscles also aids in mental relaxation. Mental relaxation is key when a Therapist is attempting to work into deeper muscles of the body.

Stones need to be kept heated in clean, sanitized water between 120 to 130 degrees Fahrenheit (about 50°C). Typically, gloves, tools, or mesh bags are used in removing stones from the hot water for sanitary reasons since hot water promotes the growth of bacteria. Alternatively, water temperatures kept too low may allow the proliferation of bacteria, algae, and mold, especially if the water has not been changed. Ideally the water should be changed for every round of sessions the therapist performs, the stone should be thoroughly cleaned and dried between patients. Your therapist or practitioner should have attended an intensive course over a period of a few days, with a resultant qualification. While the length of time the practitioner has spent being trained can be important, in general a recognised qualification from a reputable practical training source is preferred.

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Saturday, July 11, 2009

What is massage?


Massage is a "hands-on" therapy in which muscles and other soft tissues of the body are manipulated to improve health and well-being. Varieties of massage range from gentle stroking and kneading of muscles and other soft tissues to deeper manual techniques. Massage has been practiced as a healing therapy for centuries in nearly every culture around the world. It helps relieve muscle tension, reduce stress, and evoke feelings of calmness. Although massage affects the body as a whole, it particularly influences the activity of the musculoskeletal, circulatory, lymphatic, and nervous systems.

When did massage start as a healing pratice

Today more than ever we need massage for healing purposes. Below is a short history of massage.

The use of massage for healing purposes dates back 4,000 years in Chinese medical literature and continues to be an important aspect of Traditional Chinese Medicine (TCM) today. A contemporary form of massage known as Swedish massage was introduced to the United States in the 1850s. By the end of the 19th century, a significant number of American doctors were practicing this manual technique and the nation's first massage therapy clinics opened its doors to the public.
In the early 20
th century, the rise of technology and prescription drugs began to overshadow massage therapy. For the next several decades, massage remained dormant and only a few therapists continued to practice the "ancient" technique. During the 1970s, however, both the general public as well as the medical profession began to take notice of alternative medicine and mind-body therapies, which thrust massage therapy back into the limelight. Today, there are more than 125,000 massage therapists practicing in the United States and their numbers are growing rapidly to keep up with the more than 80 million massage therapy appointments made every year.

Friday, July 10, 2009

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Aromatherapy Massage - massage therapy with the addition of one or more scented oils called essential oils, which address specific needs. The masseur can select oils that are relaxing, energizing, stress reducing, balancing and more. One of the most common essential oils used in aromatherapy massage is lavender, which is very relaxing and calming. Aromatherapy massage is particularly suited to reduce stress or other conditions associated with an emotional component.

Body Electric Massage - through conscious breath, we recognize the holistic connections between the mind, body and spirit. This session offers continued opportunities to explore those connections in a safe and supportive environment. The session begins with an undressing ritual and proceeds to a light massage with powder to raise the senses of your body. After your brief powder massage, warm cream is applied to the entire body. Energy is elevated during moving music styles which slowly builds in rhythm and intensity.

Deep Tissue Massage - targets the deeper layers of muscle and connective tissue. The masseur uses slower strokes or friction techniques across the grain of the muscle. Deep tissue massage is used for chronically tight or painful muscles, repetitive strain, poor posture or to aid in recovery from injury. People often feel sore for one to two days after deep tissue massage.

Erotic Massage - can be viewed as a form of sexual foreplay and relaxing bodywork. It borrows from several different massage techniques, and involves the titillation of skin. Sometimes both the masseur and the client are nude during the sensual massage session. Different masseurs have different techniques so it is best to ask what their massage session entails.

Esalen Massage - targets muscles and the circulatory system with long, gentle, unpredictable strokes and mild stretching. It increases body awareness and induces a meditative state in the recipient. In addition to promoting relaxation of the muscles and nervous system, Esalen massage can stimulate lymph and blood vessels to expel body toxins and stretch connective tissue.

Hot Stone Massage - heated, smooth stones are placed on certain points on the body to warm and loosen tight muscles and balance energy centers in the body. The masseur may also hold stones and apply gentle pressure with them. The warmth is incredibly comforting, and hot stone massage is beneficial for people who have muscle tension but prefer a lighter massage.

Reflexology Massage - utilizes reflex points in the feet and hands that branch out to every part of the body, because each point is stimulated through targeted pressure. This practice increases circulation and promotes specific bodily and muscular functions. The benefits of reflexology include physical and emotional improvements, such as increased confidence, motivation and concentration.

Sensual Massage - is intended to be both nurturing and stimulating. Both the masseur and client can be unclothed, and the strokes are light to moderate in pressure. A sensual massage session can also create sexual energy but achieving orgasm is not the intended end result. Sensual massage is about the man to man bonding and the nurturing nature of the massage. Each masseur uses different techniques, therefore, it is a good idea to ask the masseur questions before the session begins.

Shiatsu Massage - focuses on pressure points in rhythmic pressure and combines it with the rotation and stretching of joints to unblock channels of energy. Shiatsu relieves uncomfortable conditions like headaches, back pain, asthma, stiffness and depression, all while restoring a natural balance to the body. Shiatsu is a great massage to help keep your body healthy.

Sports Massage - is tailor-made for the athlete, and combines elements of Swedish and Shiatsu massage in targeting specific muscles used in sports. It prepares the athlete for peak performance by draining fatigue, preventing injuries, decreasing swelling and healing damaged tissue.

Swedish Massage - is a combination of light, medium and deep tissue massage techniques. The masseur rubs muscles against each other and against the bone, always in the direction of blood flow to the heart, which increases oxygen flow in the blood. Swedish massage also helps to reduce toxins within the tissue, as well as recovery time for injured muscles. By increasing circulation and flushing out lactic and uric acids, Swedish massage also keeps ligaments and tendons limber. If you have chronic muscle fatigue, or if your lifestyle demands intense physical work, Swedish massage is the best fitting option.

Tantric Massage - is a ritual of receiving sensual kundalini (sexual) energy. In this ritual, you are given time to explore your body without any specific goals in mind. Adding a healing energy, tantric massage, can create an environment in which you can release stress and feel more alive in your body while staying fully aware of your sexual energy.

Thai Massage - is more like a passive stretching session, wherein the practitioner moves, loosens and stretches joints. Starting at the feet and moving up, Thai massage therapists claim that it harmonizes the body to loosen blocks and restores balance to the body.

Therapeutic Massage - is designed for those who have experienced an injury or physical challenge. This massage is generally not a flowing type of massage and not necessarily designed for relaxation but rather to address a specific physical challenge or injury. Therapeutic massage may not be a full body massage, because the masseur often focuses only on the areas affected by an injury or physical challenge. The amount of pressure the masseur applies is determined by the amount needed to address your specific physical challenge or to improve the overall well-being.

Trigger Point Massage - involves intermittent pumping pressure that is applied to trigger points, the taut and knobby spots in tissue that accumulate waste products. This action flushes out toxins and releases endorphins. Trigger point massage relieves muscle tension and pain from sports injuries, accidents or surgeries. If you are an athlete, you've probably suffered from neck stiffness, carpal tunnel, tennis elbow, bursitis, frozen shoulder, back pain, lower back stiffness, sciatica or shin splints. Trigger point massage can treat all of those afflictions.